"Only when you’ve truly had enough suffering in your life, are you able to say ’ I don’t need it anymore’."
"Strictly speaking, you don’t think: Thinking happens to you."
Eckhart Tolle
"All you need to know and observe in yourself is this: Whenever you feel superior or inferior to anyone, that’s the ego in you."
Eckhart Tolle
"Nonreaction to the ego of others is one of the most effective ways not only of going beyond ego in yourself but also dissolving the collective human ego."
Eckhart Tolle
"To uphold the I-thought, it needs the opposite thought of “the other.” The conceptual “I” cannot survive without the conceptual “other.” The others are most other when I see them as my enemies. At one end of the scale of this unconscious egoic patter lies the egoic compulsive habit of faultfinding and complaining about others."
Eckhart Tolle
"The content of the ego varies from person to person, but in every ego the same structure operates. In other words: Egos only differ on the surface. Deep down they are all the same. In what way are they the same? They live on identification and separation. When you live through the mind-made self comprised of thought and emotion that is the ego, the basis for your identity is precarious because thought and emotion are by their very nature ephemeral, fleeting. So every ego is continuously struggling for survival, trying to protect and enlarge itself."
Eckhart Tolle
"Suffering has a noble purpose: the evolution of the consciousness and the burning up of the ego."
Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth
"How do you let go of attachment to things? Don’t even try. It’s impossible. Attachment to things drops away by itself when you no longer seek to find yourself in them."
Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth
"Many people live habitually as if the present moment were an obstacle that they need to overcome in order to get to the next moment, and imagine living your whole life like that. Always, this moment is not quite good enough because you need to get to the next one."
Eckhart Tolle
"Many people live with a tormentor in their head that continuously attacks and punishes them and drains them of vital energy. It is the cause of untold misery and unhappiness, as well as of disease."
Eckhart Tolle
"The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education, physical appearance, special abilities, relationships, personal and family history, belief systems, and often political, nationalistic, racial, religious, and other collective identifications. None of these is you."
Eckhart Tolle
"If uncertainty is unacceptable to you, it turns into fear. If it is perfectly acceptable, it turns into increased aliveness, alertness, and creativity."
"The best indicator of your level of consciousness is how you deal with life’s challenges. Through those challenges, an already unconscious person tends to become more unconscious, and a conscious person more intensely conscious. You can use a challenge to awaken you, or you can allow it to pull you into even deeper sleep."
Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now